The minute I get my own place to live, the cost of living increases…..
just as soon as I get comfortable with my current phone/service, my phone starts to fall apart…..
Whenever I clean up my room/house/area of living at the very least 2-3 pairs of socks go missing, my jeans have gotten up and walked out the door, and t-shirts are playing hide and seek with me….
I stop giving a damn caring what other people think about me across the board (not just at work, or in my family), not that I really cared all that much, but caring at any level at all was bad and is now going to be corrected…..
I get a little bit of spare cash in my pocket and the car wants to act up and demand some of that spare cash to be put back into her…..
It seems the more rope you give someone to hang themselves with, the more rope they almost anxiously take to do so…..
Less and less I believe the theory that “you are what you attract” is complete and utter bs. Who came up with this? What is this really based off of? Yeah, there will be common denoms that “attract” you to someone (facial features, height, weight, clothing/style) but most of those things are superficial and can be changed with time and or money….below are a few reasons why i think this is BS
- Crazy people are attracted to not just crazy people, no. They are drawn like flies to stink to non-crazy people. This shouldn’t be a hard concept to believe nor understand. Think about any relationship you’ve been in with a “crazy person”…..do you think that the person in question was drawn to you because you are crazy? Or do you believe that you were drawn to them because they were? Absolutely not. Had you known they were crazy you wouldn’t have given them the time of day, that second look, your phone number or the key to your front door.
- A slob isn’t going to be attracted to another slob like they will someone who is neat and organized, they will ultimately be attracted to someone that doesn’t exhibit slob tendencies.
- Don’t get me wrong, i’m not saying that a two people that have things in common wont be attracted to each other (i.e. people of the same culture) but this is a completely separate topic from the one i’m referring to.
Just needed to get that stuff off of my chest, blog about it and get back to neutral.
things not goin too good over there?
lol
It ok though, things are going to “balance” themselves out here shortly….like i said, it’s time to get back to neutral and really move into this next phase of my life.
Na, it’s not. A brother is a little frustrated right now, can’t you tell?
It’s been a while since i’ve seen your ’round these parts though, nice to see that you still swing by and show some love/concern.
Hah!!
You are so right! In some aspects I believe u have the tendency to hang around people that have the same characteristics that we have. But to say “You are what u attract” is plain wrong. What ever happened to the phrase “Opposites attract”? In taking keen observations, this seems to apply in many situations.
Now here’s the second way I can look at this….from a Christian point of view? Man, it’s only a test of your faith! Back to the phrase “You are what you attract”….. God made us as individuals and we are created in his own image. Therefore walking in Christ’s image we are prone to attract people seeking spiritual guidance in whatever manner God deems necessary. You can’t simply say that you’re that person because they came to you.
I see it like this…..We all have seen our share of trials and tribulations in our lives and then if you look back on it, you’re like how the ____ did I make it through!! All of us are going through right now honestly…. Look at gas prices!!! $4.– (U fill in the blank). Pretty soon we are going to have gas prices at minimum wage salary. We are sitting back wondering how we are going to make it back and forth to work if gas keeps increasing, but nevertheless, we are going to make it through.